Real Life Discipline, Erotic Humiliation and Spanking Therapy

Most people try to avoid humiliation. They’ll look back on humiliating events in their lives with great embarrassment or even shame or anxiety.  For some, it might seem odd to know there are actually so many people who actively seek to enter into scenarios where they are humiliated and are even able to achieve sexual arousal and release as a result of this. This phenomenon is known as erotic humiliation and is actually a very common fetish under the BDSM umbrella.  Erotic humiliation is a consensual arrangement with all participants. There are a number of different levels of play people enjoy – from lightly embarrassing someone during sex or play, to humiliating them, to completely degrading them. What one person finds humiliating, another might not find humiliating at all. What one person finds to be erotic, another person might find psychologically damaging. As erotic humiliation is a psychological form of domination/submission play, it’s important that limits are set and agreed up

Types of Sessions: Motivation Stress relief  Therapeutic Punishment Behavior Modification Spanking just for the sake of spanking Implements: A bare-hand spanking is always the best warm up tool Canes  Leather belt Riding crop Carpet beater Straps (rubber and leather) Wooden spoons (in all shapes and sizes!) Aircraft cable (saved for the truly naughty!) Paddles (wood, rubber, leather and acrylic) Hair brushes, bath brushes and clothes brushes And many others . . . Other activities that are associated with my spanking play may include: Rectal temperature taking  Butt plugs and ass/anal control  Figging, enema and anal punishment  Exposure and vulnerable positions  Slapping (breasts, pussy, asshole and face)  Embarrassing physical exams, breast, vagina and rectal exams  Embarrassing play: Orgasm control and denial  Shaving pussy and asshole  Medical exams & strip searches  Naked exercise regime for weight loss  Anal massage/orgasm with finger/toys  Finger your own ass while being watc

  Erotic. Painful. Punitive. These are some of the ways you might describe a good ol’ bum whooping. But therapeutic? Well, that’s the idea behind spanking therapy. Below, two kink educators explain WTH spanking therapy entails and why people are into it.  What is it?  While it always involves bottom bumping, what qualifies as spanking therapy is up for debate. For example, as sex worker and sex educator Corey More explains, spanking therapy is any BDSM spanking scene. Because according to them, any consensual risk-aware spanking session is going to have therapeutic benefits.  Pleasure-based, queer-inclusive kink educator Lateef Taylor says that the difference between a regular spanking session and a spanking therapy scene is intention. “Just like all therapy, for it to count as spanking therapy, you have to go into it with the intention to move through something,” they say.  Regardless of which definition you choose, spanking therapy is the use of spanking to:  create a sensation of re

Individual : Working one-on-one is a wonderful way to address your specific needs. I will get to know you very well; not only your specific needs and desires, but also your beginning tolerances, how you react at different stages, and what really works best for you. You may be surprised at what you learn about yourself as well.  Establishing a sense of trust is very important. Please know that we will discuss all sessions in detail beforehand, but once we get started, your disciplinarian knows best. Then, all negotiating is finished and I will be immune to pleading and wailing. It's for your own good, after all, and we all know it will hurt me more than it does you!  Sensory Spanking:  Sessions are ideal for girls who have never experienced spanking as an adult or just simply like to be spanked without a role-play scenario. Of course, the methods, implements, and intensity will be tailored to your tolerances, which we will be learning together during your first visit. I am very good

Been spanking naughty girls for over 15 years. For many years my partners asked me for non-sexual disciplinary or stress relief spankings and I really love as how amazing my partners feel after the sessions. Most women I know are often drawn to spanking because there is something within themselves that they are trying to heal and spanking is the therapeutic modality that most directly helps them to access difficult or blocked emotions. Many who seek spanking are individuals who are in positions of power, and with that power comes great responsibility. Spanking and giving up control allow the escape from the decision-making that is so much part of their lives and has been found to be psychologically beneficial. While spanking is not for everyone, there are many well educated, bright and highly successful people that find spanking to be therapeutic in a variety of ways.  In fact, the common denominators are; well educated, well traveled, well read, well spoken and successful in their liv