- Individual: Working one-on-one is a wonderful way to address your specific needs. I will get to know you very well; not only your specific needs and desires, but also your beginning tolerances, how you react at different stages, and what really works best for you. You may be surprised at what you learn about yourself as well. Establishing a sense of trust is very important. Please know that we will discuss all sessions in detail beforehand, but once we get started, your disciplinarian knows best. Then, all negotiating is finished and I will be immune to pleading and wailing. It's for your own good, after all, and we all know it will hurt me more than it does you!
- Sensory Spanking: Sessions are ideal for girls who have never experienced spanking as an adult or just simply like to be spanked without a role-play scenario. Of course, the methods, implements, and intensity will be tailored to your tolerances, which we will be learning together during your first visit. I am very good at watching body language, as well as the condition of the skin to judge how we are progressing, but I also employ the, tried and true, traffic light safe word method: "Yellow" means you are getting close to your limit, and I'll know to slow down a bit, or lighten up a little. "Red" means stop...full stop.... I will respect your boundaries and much prefer that you use "yellow" rather than wait till you can not take any more. If you ask me to push them some, I'll still be watching for your sincere limits. I do not have a personal agenda when it comes to "how much you can take." That is a very individual thing and you can't compare yourself to another person.
- Role-Play: covers a variety of domestic and other possibilities. Just to reiterate, all references to "girl," "child," or any reference that might be thought of as a "non-adult" is purely a term of endearment, as all women will be 18 or over. Sometimes girls want to recreate and relive an experience they have had, others wish to live out an experience they wish they'd had. Various roles might be uncle/niece, governess/ward, husband/babysitter, daddy/daughter, husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend, teacher/student, boss/employee, doctor/patient, or maybe you deserve a court-ordered spanking for some infraction. The intensity of these sessions can be moderate to severe, but again, every individual is unique. What is mild for you might be severe for the next person, so we'll make sure to determine your needed intensity. To stay in role, I generally ask "So, do you think have you learned your lesson???" Any tentative answer, anything but a solid "yes sir." gives me the indication that you can take and need a bit more. I'll still be watching your body language and the condition of your bottom. Let me know the journey your imagination might take us.
- Therapeutic Spanking is designed to allow for the warm glow, the release of tensions, or even the catharsis that a spanking can bring. The actual pain is not usually the primary focus, though again, the intensity will be specific to the needs of the individual. Some people need the pain to bring up the endorphins to reach the state of consciousness they are looking for. Rhythmic breathing and biofeedback techniques are employed to assist with the transition. Generally, I put on some music or relaxing sounds during the session, as well as use specific scents to induce relaxation and attain the desired space. Aftercare is more involved (lotion on your buttocks and between the cheeks, gentle touches and massage), as it's important for a girl to be guided back from the experience.
- Disciplinary Spanking can be indicated in a situation where a girl has done something that they do, or maybe just should, feel bad about. Taken to task for bad behavior can be good for both accountability and motivation. Again we will set up specifics beforehand, but once we're in the session, you are going to get your bottom tanned. Some scenarios have been: having stolen a bike when the girl was a child; texting while driving; driving under the influence; smoking too much; drinking too much; talking hatefully to husband, co-workers, or family members; failing to meet a deadline, excessive masturbation, poor personal and feminine hygiene and on and on.
- Life Coaching with Disciplinary Spankings: Some people need a bit of real motivation and accountability for real-life issues. A custom disciplinary program will be designed both with you and for you, to address real issues in your life. This includes working with you to set up reasonable, measurable, and obtainable goals, rules, and/or schedules for behavior; as well as specific consequences for failing to meet goals or breaking rules, along with rewards for positive progress. You will report to me at least once weekly by email, phone, text, or whatever method we agree on. At that time we will discuss how you are doing with your plan, any immediate consequences that are needed, and what you will expect at your next visit. Some areas that a behavior plan can address are weight loss; chronic lateness; keeping the house clean; meeting deadlines at work or on home projects and personal hygiene (panties, genitalia, underarms and anus). Generally, we set up 7-10 goals. If the goal is far-reaching, it might need to be broken up into measurable and obtainable pieces. It's important that there are steps that allow us to see progress, so you will be motivated by that success as well. I'll be your leader, as well as your disciplinarian. I want you to succeed... A behavior plan is good for 6 months, and only works in conjunction with regular in-person visits, minimally once a month, however, I have seen girls as often as weekly, depending on their needs.
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